Have you ever been in a bad mood, and a friend came by in a really great, excited mood?
Your mood probably changed, and you found yourself smiling and cheering up in spite of yourself.
This is how humans hypnotize each other in everyday life – we transfer our states (of energy/emotion) to each other.
“State Transfer” can happen on a metaphysical energy level. But more so, a state is transferred with non-verbal sub communication. When you are turned on, happy or confident, your voice subtly (or not so subtly) reflects your state, as do your facial expressions, eye contact, manner of touching, body language, and a million other little things too numerous to try to micromanage.
So the next time someone is in a bad mood or you’re feeling like you’re on top of the world send some of that energy their way.
It takes too long to hold back something that could so easily and instantly change someone’s mood.
“Love is attention without intention.”
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