The Ring

Really?

The other day I saw this little Diddy as someone’s profile picture.

Now I get where it’s coming from. From the standpoint of a committed relationship, sure you should wait until you “put a ring on it” to enjoy sex with your life partner. Now this picture could be making a declaration about fluid-bonded partners feeling safer once they’re married, but I’ll simply assume that it’s focusing on the assurance that comes with knowing that you’re married to the person you’re bringing (protected) satisfaction to.

If you like it be sure to put a ring on it.

I messaged this newly married person & said to her, “Funny, I was gonna say the safest thing to wear is a condom, but a wedding ring works too.”

She laughed.

Whether you’re married or not, make sure that you’re playing safe & wrap it up. Make sure you get checked out together at a clinic.

Rings show the world that you love each other, protection shows each other that you care about one another.

So many choices, this could be fun!

I’m not against going in raw or unprotected, just be prepared and don’t fool yourself into thinking that a ring will solve everything.

Have fun & be safe kids. Now go make me some God Children… Or not.

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Quote: Resistance

“Your resistance just proves that we’re on to something.” – Ruth Maloney (Infinity Inc.)

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The Tipping Point

If I care too much, does that make me reckless?
When I feel so strongly, does it make me weak?
My heart goes out to you wherever you are, like an S.O.S. or a shot in the dark, throwing caution to the wind.
Selfishly I’d take a bullet for you, all or nothing sacrifice.
I’ve died many times for you & that was before I ever fell for you.
You inspire me to be fearless & to speak not my mind, but my heart.

I don’t really know how to hide to from you, so I take in everything like a perceptive listener would.
Slow to answer, but quick to hear the way your tears & smiles form on the tip of your tongue, your teeth & your lips.
Such inflection is reflection of the echoing love you project through the words that you’ve chosen to leave me with.
The way you carefully play each word to the beat & hold them close to your heart is with the same reckless passion that I am willing to dive into this new depth with.
No matter the hour your voice carries me to another place where love is not a question, but simply the answer to everything.

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